Letting go

Problem with Letting go:Is It Spiritual or Linguistic Disorder?

“Social Positivity” tells us stories about  about letting go. Is it “fantasy” or reality?

The subliminal message  is that  “If you can not enjoy this freedom . You are spritually broken.” 

Here are few examples of these messages.

It is like taking the yellow brick road in wizard of OZ,  taking a trip to the fantasy of  “resentment free world”

Sometimes, the anger goes toward God . 

"I hate you God . 

You don’t help me to "let Go". Everyone else but me  can “let go”.

But, God ‘s stuff is the function of the upper brain. “Not letting go” is the malfunction in “Lower Brain”. The lower brain take an instant takeover. it never reaches to upper brain to pray to God.

The malfunction in lower brain: 

trauma impacts DLPFC part of the brain. 

MRI shows this part of the brain is deactivated . (Body Keeps the Score).

This  is also done by repetition compulsion through narcissistic abuse.

DLPFC is the time keeper of  the brain.

The following is from Body keeps the score

“The DLPFC tells us how our present experience relates to the past and how it may affect the future—you can think of it as the timekeeper of the brain. Knowing that whatever is happening is finite and will sooner or later come to an end makes most experiences tolerable. The opposite is also true—situations become intolerable if they feel interminable. Most of us know from sad personal experience that terrible grief is typically accompanied by the sense that this wretched state will last forever, and that we will never get over our loss. Trauma is the ultimate experience of “this will last forever.

Visiting the past in therapy should be done while people are, biologically speaking, firmly rooted in the present and feeling as calm, safe, and grounded as possible. (“Grounded” means that you can feel your butt in your chair, see the light coming through the window, feel the tension in your calves, and hear the wind stirring the tree outside.) Being anchored in the present while revisiting the trauma opens the possibility of deeply knowing that the terrible events belong to the past.”

For trauma victims: All the experiences become present tense. There is no Past.

Present tense becomes bigger and bigger until it explodes.

The English "past tense" becomes an introject. It exists only in language, not in reality. Body doesn’t experience past  tense.

DLFCC, the timekeeper of the brain loses granulation of time.

It doesn't recognize the passage of time.